Thinking about attending your first AA meeting? You’re welcome here.
Walking into your first Alcoholics Anonymous meeting can feel intimidating, especially if you’re unsure whether you have a drinking problem.
You don’t have to know anything about AA, and you don’t have to be certain it’s right for you. You’re welcome to come, sit down, and simply listen.
What Happens at an AA Meeting?
Most AA meetings last about an hour, although this can vary.
Meetings usually begin with a short welcome and sometimes readings from AA literature. Members may share their experiences with drinking, how they stopped, and what their lives are like today.
Some meetings involve group discussions, while others focus on reading AA literature or listening to a speaker.
You don’t need to understand the Twelve Steps or have read any AA books before attending.
Common Questions About Your First Meeting
Will I have to speak or introduce myself?
No. You might be invited to introduce yourself, but you’re not required to speak or share your story.
If you prefer, you can simply say, “I’d just like to listen today.”
Do I have to admit I’m an alcoholic?
No. You don’t have to label yourself or explain your drinking to anyone. You can explore whether AA might be helpful without making any commitments.
Is AA religious?
AA is not affiliated with any religion. Members have many different beliefs, including no religious beliefs at all.
Some AA meetings read the Twelve Steps and say the Serenity Prayer, both of which refer to God. You don’t have to share those beliefs or join in the prayer to attend.
Some meetings take place in churches or other religious buildings simply because those locations provide meeting space.
Will my privacy be respected?
Anonymity is one of AA’s most important principles. Members are expected to respect each other’s privacy and not reveal the identities of people they meet in AA.
You may encounter someone you already know. Remember that they are attending for their own reasons, just as you are.
Does attending an AA meeting cost anything?
No. AA has no membership fees or dues.
Some meetings collect voluntary contributions to help pay for rent, literature, and other expenses. You are never required to contribute money.
What’s the difference between an open and closed meeting?
Open meetings welcome anyone interested in learning about AA, including people who aren’t sure they have a drinking problem.
Closed meetings are for people who have a desire to stop drinking. You don’t have to identify yourself as an alcoholic to attend, but you should have a desire to stop drinking.
If you’re uncertain whether AA is right for you, an open meeting is a good place to begin.
What Happens After the Meeting?
After the meeting, some members may introduce themselves, answer questions, or offer to help you find another meeting.
You’re welcome to stay and talk, but there’s no obligation. If you’d prefer to leave quietly, that’s perfectly fine too.
You don’t need to sign up, find a sponsor, or make any commitments at your first meeting.
You can return to another meeting whenever you wish. Attending once doesn’t commit you to anything.
Ready to Take the Next Step?
You don’t have to figure everything out before coming to AA.
If you’d like to attend a meeting, you can find one near you. If you’d rather talk with someone first, our local AA members are happy to answer your questions.
You’re welcome to take things one step at a time.